10 signs he’s cheating

• Filed under: affair tips, affair-clues, affairs

Here’s some information for you women who think your man might be cheating on you.

1. He starts taking extra time to get ready for work. Shaves more, trims his nose and ear hairs, wears cologne when he usually doesn’t and seems to be concerned about his appearance more than he has in the past.

2. He suddenly has “friends from work” that he has never spoken about before. Friends that he suddenly spends a lot of time with, goes out for drinks, dinner etc, yet he never brings them home, even though you might have asked to meet them.

3. He has “wrong numbers” calling his phone, blackberry or pager, usually at later hours and cannot seem to explain the sudden increase of crank calls.

4. After months or years of inactivity, he has suddenly decided to take better care of himself in the physical fitness part. He joins a gym or joins a racketball or squash club.

5. He starts trimming his public hair without even mentioning it to you, or without you requesting it. This is a sure sign that someone else is looking there besides you.

6. You find websites such as Ashley Madison, Adult Friend Finder and Craigslist bookmarked. (Read my article about these websites below)

7. He spends more and more time on the computer “working” that ever before.

8. He starts trying new things in bed with you. He’ll suddenly have an imagination when it comes to sex. He’ll want to try new things and even start talking dirty when he never used to.

9. He doesn’t spend as much time at home, with you, as he used to. Always has an excuse to be out, always a reason to leave the house.

10. He suddenly becomes very giving to you. Buys you gifts for no apparent reason. Flowers brought home after a “meeting” with a client. Perhaps some jewellery after a weekend conference away. Watch out for gifts such as lingerie after a late night out with explaination. Perhaps his girlfriend looks good in similar lingerie and he wants to seee how you compare?

Remember these are only small signs that he’s cheating on you. One thing you might want to keep in mind…

Usually when a man cheats, it’s more about his ego that his desire to hurt you. He doesn’t want to hurt you, which is why he’ll go to great lengths to conceal his affair. Why does he cheat? He’s a man that needs his ego to be stroked. A girl starts flirting with him, his ego inflates and suddenly he finds himself being wanted again. Instead of using his mind to realize the real issues behind his desires, he takes the moral low-road and gives in to the sexuality. It’s a man’s nature.

I’ll be writing a post soon about how to prevent your man from having an affair. Women who fear infidelity will want to read it.

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