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Thinking about having an affair? Tired of neglect, abuse, lack of passion and love and respect, boredom or what ever else might be going on? Here’s some steps to keep yourself from getting caught having an affair.

  • Sign up for new Hotmail or Gmail account.
  • Rent a yourself a PO Box
  • Get a new cell phone. If you need mailing address use P.O. Box.
  • Purchase gym membership(with overnight locker rental- If not, see below)If you need mailing address use P.O. Box.
  • Rent a locker that is close to the gym. Within walking distance would be ideal. The locker will be used for anything related to your “affairs”.
  • In your locker keep a spare change of clothes that you have already worn once as well as another stick of the same deodorant you use at home.
  • On days you have dates, do not wear cologne at all. Use that only when you go out with your partner of with a group of friends.
  • Actually use the gym. Go and work out. Not only will your health and fitness improve, but you’ll have an alibi.
  • If gym are not for you, find a new hobby and try and include your partner. If he/she balks then you are set. If they actually enjoy the new hobby then start working out!
  • Sign up for sites like
    Ashley Madison Agency and Adult Friend Finder.
  • Curb your Internet usage at home. It will be tempting to be checking your email or your Ashley Madison or Lavalife ads for messages but this is a sure way to get caught. Do not look into any of your “affairs” while on a shared computer with your spouse. Find an Internet cafe. Do it from work. Go to the library. Just don’t use the home PC. Same goes for cell or Blackberry or whatever. If you insist on using your home pc, you better make sure to delete your history or use WinClear to hide your online activity.
  • Be diligent on deleting all emails, text messages, photos, etc If you insist on keeping them, buy a USB Drive to save your files. Too much data? Burn it all on to a CD and delete the files from your hard drive. Keep that CD on your P.O. Box. DO NOT leave it lying around.
  • Invent a new friend from work. Even better, create a dummy email account and send messages to your own email and cell. Talking about random things. In other words, create an invisible friend from somewhere that you partner wouldn’t have any contact with.
  • Don’t change a thing on the home front with regards to your own sexual needs and wants. Do exactly what you have been doing all along, with the exception of going to the gym or taking to your new hobby. If you always have sex missionary, then don’t change a thing.
  • Don’t use the computer after your partner has gone to bed. This is very suspicious. Then again, nothing to hide on the home PC because you aren’t using it for your “affairs” now are you????!!!
  • Pay for everything related to your “affairs” in cash. NEVER use a credit card. If you are going on a date, make SURE to have cash. Even when you stop for fuel. No hotels that accept credit cards? Sign up for a new MasterCard and send invoices to P.O.Box.
  • DO NOT keep any reciepts or invoices or anthing else while dating. When you leave a hotel, bar, taxi make sure you don’t take anything with you.
  • Don’t date in town. Drive out of town. If you have to stay local, get a hotel room and stay there.
  • DO NOT tell anyone. Not friends, not co-workers, not anyone in a chatroom, NO ONE.
  • Keep on doing what you are doing, other than your new found desire to get fit or take up a new hobby/friend or whatever you choose.
  • Go commando when you go out on a date. It’s sexier anyway and it is one less thing to worry about. Just in case someone is sniffing your drawers or panties.
  • Wet Wipes are your friend. Get some and put them in the car around the house. Unsented ones.
  • If you arouse suspicion, do not panic. Use the gym/hobby/friend(s) as your alibi, unless you were actually free and clear. Do not admit to anything. Always deny.
  • Worst case scenario…You get caught and it’s over. At least you are fit from the gym and still have your “affairs” in order.
  • When you are dating. Use protection and make sure to wash well afterwards.
  • Most of all…Don’t change. Just keep on plodding along, doing what you are doing, using your gym/hobby/friend as your alibi and building others as you go.

1. If confronted about having an affair. Deny. Unless you are caught right in the middle of actually having sex, deny, deny, deny, deny.

2. Always wear a condom. No matter how good it would feel otherwise, always wear a condom.

3. Make sure you do not tell any or your friends. Not the boys at the shop, the guys on the team or your co-workers. No one must know.

4. Never use your credit card for anything to do with your affair. Not even to put gas in your car to drive to a secret love nest. Nothing. Cash only.

5. Do not give out your personal email address, cell-phone or pager. Create new HushMail to hide your identity.

6. Always shower after a sexual encounter and make sure to be liberal with the soap to wash off any residue, scent or hair. If a shower is not available, purchase some wet wipes to freshen up.

7. Do not start wearing different cologne or perfume unless your husband/wife buys it for you first.

8. Don’t shave suddenly before going out at night. Do that first thing in the morning so not to arouse suspicion.

9. Join a gym, only if you are prepared to be more active at home too so that your husband/wife will think that they are the reason you are getting in shape.

10. Do not ever admit to having an affair. Deny, deny, deny, deny.

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Here’s some information for you women who think your man might be cheating on you.

1. He starts taking extra time to get ready for work. Shaves more, trims his nose and ear hairs, wears cologne when he usually doesn’t and seems to be concerned about his appearance more than he has in the past.

2. He suddenly has “friends from work” that he has never spoken about before. Friends that he suddenly spends a lot of time with, goes out for drinks, dinner etc, yet he never brings them home, even though you might have asked to meet them.

3. He has “wrong numbers” calling his phone, blackberry or pager, usually at later hours and cannot seem to explain the sudden increase of crank calls.

4. After months or years of inactivity, he has suddenly decided to take better care of himself in the physical fitness part. He joins a gym or joins a racketball or squash club.

5. He starts trimming his public hair without even mentioning it to you, or without you requesting it. This is a sure sign that someone else is looking there besides you.

6. You find websites such as Ashley Madison, Adult Friend Finder and Craigslist bookmarked. (Read my article about these websites below)

7. He spends more and more time on the computer “working” that ever before.

8. He starts trying new things in bed with you. He’ll suddenly have an imagination when it comes to sex. He’ll want to try new things and even start talking dirty when he never used to.

9. He doesn’t spend as much time at home, with you, as he used to. Always has an excuse to be out, always a reason to leave the house.

10. He suddenly becomes very giving to you. Buys you gifts for no apparent reason. Flowers brought home after a “meeting” with a client. Perhaps some jewellery after a weekend conference away. Watch out for gifts such as lingerie after a late night out with explaination. Perhaps his girlfriend looks good in similar lingerie and he wants to seee how you compare?

Remember these are only small signs that he’s cheating on you. One thing you might want to keep in mind…

Usually when a man cheats, it’s more about his ego that his desire to hurt you. He doesn’t want to hurt you, which is why he’ll go to great lengths to conceal his affair. Why does he cheat? He’s a man that needs his ego to be stroked. A girl starts flirting with him, his ego inflates and suddenly he finds himself being wanted again. Instead of using his mind to realize the real issues behind his desires, he takes the moral low-road and gives in to the sexuality. It’s a man’s nature.

I’ll be writing a post soon about how to prevent your man from having an affair. Women who fear infidelity will want to read it.

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Here’s some tips and tricks to use if you are planning on having an affair.

-Tell your spouse that it’s time for you to get healthy and fit and as a result you are going to join a fitness club or gym.Find one with lockers you can rent for the month. Use this locker to store a change of clothes, your phone/pager and anything else incriminating. Make NO mention of this locker to anyone.

-Create a new identity. Name, nickname for internet use, get a new Hotmail account, so that your identity can’t be found out.

-Pay cash for a pay-to-talk phone or a pager. Use this number for all your secret contacts.

-Do not use your home computer to find dates or to correspond with your lover. Spouses can and will go through your Internet History to see what you are up to. Having Ashley Madison and Adult Friend Finder bookmarked from home is a major warning sign. Using a work computer is maginally safer, but be careful where you surf online @ work.

-Wear a condom. Always.

-Shower after ALL meetings with your lover, regardless of what you do.

-Leave all cell phones, pagers, gifts, reciepts, clothes that you wear/wore while cheating in your locker at the gym. Do not bring one single thing home with you that was involved with someone else.

-Only pay cash for things when out with your secret lover. Do not, under ANY circumstances, use your personal or business credit cars for any affair-related purchases.

-Keep your affair a secret from even your best friend. Loose lips sink ships.

-Keep things that you do with your lover, with them. Don’t bring home new ideas for sex or dating home to your spouse. That will arose suspicion. Do your best to make sure that nothing changes at home.

-Find an older woman or man as your lover. Younger lover tend to become more attached and less likely to keep your affair a secret. They want to blab it to all their friends on MSN.

I’ll add more as they come to me. Follow these tips and your affair will stay on the secret side.

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