Online dating tips for men

• Filed under: Adult Friend Finder, cyber affairs, online dating, personals

Now this isn’t necessarily revolutionary, but there are a few men out there that still haven’t mastered, or even tried, picking up girls online. Here’s some useful tips that will help pretty much ANY guy score some quality dates online.

First of all, go to AdultFriendFinder

-Put a photo in your profile. Worried about someone spotting you? Take a photo and blur out your face, or if you have a nice body, crop out most of your face. Even though I tell women they don’t “need” to have a photo, men NEED to.

-Be as honest as you can. You’d be surprised at how honesty will get you places you never thought possible. Looking for just a quick screw? Write that. Looking for a few dates but nothing serious and no-strings-attached, say that too.

-Aim high. Don’t worry if you think the girl is out of your league. Getting shot down on lavalife isn’t nearly as bad as getting shot down in public after taking the time and spending money on drinks.

-Make sure to put some humor on your profile, especially your opening line! Women scroll through hundreds of profile opening lines. Make yours stand out from the rest.

-Once you make contact lead the women over to your instant messenger program so that you can save money. MSN is free and widely used. Some people even find clever ways to put their msn messenger email in their profile. While that worked for me for a while, staff will give you trouble for doing this.

-As soon as the contact is happening in the phone, it’s all up to you. You’ve now got a woman who likes your profile, is interested in what you are looking for, AND is also online looking for something. With a little effort from you, like offering to take her out for drinks, shoot some pool, a movie, etc, you will find yourself in her arms very soon.

-Now…After that first date, repeat as necessary with other women online until you get your fill.

-Make sure to take notes on your women, or else you will get confused. I used to open a Notepad document and put the woman’s profile URL, her nickname, her real name and my description of her. I’d repeat this for all women I was seeing, just to make sure I didn’t confuse them.

All in all, make sure you realize something…These women are human too. Don’t treat them like crap once you get what you want. Just like you deserve to be treated with respect, make sure you do the same. Remember you are both on a dating site to find something…Make sure if you don’t find it, you still remember the persons feelings!

(Yes I know that this “seems” like a Adult Friend Finder personals ad. I guess it kinda is, but with one big difference. I am not trying to blow smoke up your arse. These techniques worked wonders for many years for me. I never went on more dates in while on online dating sites as I did dating out of bars and clubs. Also it was a helluva lot cheaper and easy on the ego. Getting turned down on a computer monitor is far less painful and less of a blow to the ego than a woman doing it in a crowded bar after you just spend a bunch of money on drinks/food…You know?

Tags: online, dating, tips, men, dating,